Borderangel, 61

I am a compassionate cancer patient advocate. I am a loyal and sincere woman. People open up to me easily and I would like to find that too, With my kind of work I follow the rules of HIPPA and I carry a lot inside. I experience the emotions of grieving alone. I have many friends and family that admire what I do but they do not get involved of course because they don't know what to say to me about my kind of work. My son is a paramedic firefighter and every now and then we talk about the work we do and it feels good to get it all out. I just think that what is missing in my life is that true companion where we can talk openly about the honest feelings we go through once in a while on a tough day. We can mutually understand how valuable it is to get away from the medical scene together, whether it is just a day or two or a vacation to unwind and leave our work behind. Laughing and finding new adventures together can be rejuvenating and being able to laugh and enjoy each others company is important. There is so much I want to do but I don't want to go alone quite honestly and I know there is a true match in life for me, but I am always around married people or very ill patients. I am looking to get married again. So I am asking all marriage phobics to PLEASE NOT WRITE ME. I do not have time to just play around in my life. I know what I want and need in my life. I am very smart as well as loving. I think it may be important to write some things about what I like in a man and what he can expect from me. I am the kind of woman you can bring around friends and family and never worry about embarrassing you. People love my nature. I am attentive to the man I am with. I am his only woman. I will not be going on a lot of meet and greets. I can get a good sense right from the start if we will be compatible and I do not like to force things into happening. If a man talks more than listens, it won't work. I know I need a good listener. It must be mutual.